Been there, done that and I'm so over that type of nonsense. These pre-conceived ideas about Black women is exhausting and infuriating at the same time. But the truth is, and there's data to back me up, you were in Spain and Spaniards, I've found, have a lot of issues with racism. But overall, White women are just some of the most unpredictable people on the planet, and even the liberal White feminists can't be trusted. Stop trying to be friends with them and understand their psychopathy...there's just too much going on with them to even allow yourself to be bothered. They'll give you a migraine every single time.