I disagree. # 1, the husband is solely responsible because he's the one who is married, with kids. What...did he just trip and stumble inside of the side piece? Once again he could have said no, but he didn't. As for no one wins in infidelity....the person who was cheated on is the clear winner when they leave a lying and cheating man. Then is strong enough to leave that toxicity behind and move on with her life. That's a win/win.