My aunt and older friends still get hit on and complimented, and my aunt is 73 and some of my older friends range in age from 50 - 83. The mind-f*cking that has been done on women is complete BS. We're all going to age, unless we die young. Stop allowing the propaganda about aging, especially regarding older women aging, to lock around your neck like a pit bull. It's sick. Remember, we didn't come up with these rules and edicts, men did. And it's to their own benefit. Stop allowing society and men to dictate to you about who you are, how you look and how you're supposed to behave. You look great, so run with that. Live your life.